>>12659Yes, just get jacked, make decent money, have your own place to live, a decent car, a cell-phone, clean up your skin and hair as much as you can, wear decent clothes, THEN you can start looking for gothic lolitas, probably at anime cons or online.
Don't ever show any weak emotion to her, don't ever complain about any problem to her, you must be in charge, dominant, and make her feel protected/secure.
So long as you don't have any severe genetic defects, these easy steps are a sure-fire way to get a gothic lolita gf, trust me I've fucked 100s of them, this is what women want.