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 No.5306

Wharton I have a dilemma. I have been telling everyone I was born in 1994 instead of 1988 and now the Japanese exchange students want to have a party for my 25th birthday that happens a month ago that I didn't tell them about since I lied about my age. The Japanese girl who arranges all our get together is having a party for me and another Japanese girl whose birthday it is next week.


What do I do? Do I keep saying I'm 25 or just come clean and admit I'm 31 ? I'm just so embarrassed that I'm a 31 year old with no confidence and the social and financial achievement of a teen. And how do I deal with the fact that I lied to them? They will not trust me.

I didn't expect us to be as close friends and now I feel like an asshole who they will trust less for lying on top of being weirded out that I'm in my 30s.

Help me whatnot

 No.5308

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You're 31 and you haven't learned not to tell stupid lies?

Especially ones you can easily get caught in?

 No.5309

Like one of the Japanese girls was saying I looked 26 one time. Like most Americans think I'm early 20s but she said I looked that old and I still just went with my fake age

 No.5310

>>5308
Fuck so what do I do???? Just admit it to them? It's too awkward

 No.5311

Like they brought up my age and once asked me and another remembered and says"24!" Then I just went with it and was like well my birthday passed so I'm 25

And they were like why didn't you tell us!!! We're having a party for you!

I was just like durrr


Kill me whatnot I'm not lying about my age anymore

Like how do I say it without making them mad or feel betrayed

 No.5312

I just ruined my friendships

But whatever they would probably feel less comfortable with me if I said I was 31 from the get go right

 No.5313

Well I was 30 I met them at the beginning of the semester

 No.5314

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Like this is my second friendship I've ruined. My first was a zoomer gay friend I made last year who got really mad at me because I lied to him about my age and kept doing passive aggressive shit to me till I got mad and ghosted him.

I should've learned then but I still kept with it

And the Japanese students are very polite they wouldn't have been rude to me like Americans are

I'm so fucking stupid whatnot how to I rectify this?

Help me

 No.5315

From now on I'm telling everyone my age. Like I told this 19 year old I was 28 when I first came back to uni in 2017 and she was still cool to me and sending me zoomer memes. I should've just stayed honest

 No.5317

I could understand lying about your age to a girl but why would you lie to your male roommate you mega fag?

 No.5319

>>5317
Because we all hang out together genius. He introduced me to the Japanese girls

And it's not a sexual thing you dumb zoomer imagine being in college in your 30s and still being a socially awkward autistic like a teenager. It's shameful and embarrassing and the reaction from them hurts

Also I'm not really close with most of my roommates.

 No.5320

But I guess I'm going to tell my Japanese roommate today or next time we hang out

 No.5322

Whatnot do you think they'll be understanding? How should I say it?

 No.5326

>>5322
What happens if you don't tell them?

 No.5327

>>5326
I dunno nothing I guess?

 No.5328

They might find out from something else eventually, I dunno.

 No.5329

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>>5327
Just live the lie, you're stuck in it now.

 No.5335

>>5329
Fuck

 No.5336

>>5329
Are you sure this is the best course? Like we even talked about me visiting Japan someday and them showing me the city

 No.34812

Oh wow. I ended up telling them and they were all really nice to me about it and I felt so much more comfortable with them. One of the Japanese girls still wanted to date me but I wasn't really attracted to her and felt like I would look like a creep to Americans with a girl 12 years younger than me and from Japan. But now I regret not dating her. I really needed the affection but I didn't want to be her first boyfriend and break her heart since I wasn't that into her.

They all left when lockdown started and I only talk on Instagram occasionally. Sigh

 No.34829

Oh wow. I ended up telling them and they were all really nice to me about it and I felt so much more comfortable with them. One of the Japanese girls still wanted to date me but I wasn't really attracted to her and felt like I would look like a creep to Americans with a girl 12 years younger than me and from Japan. But now I regret not dating her. I really needed the affection but I didn't want to be her first boyfriend and break her heart since I wasn't that into her.

They all left when lockdown started and I only talk on Instagram occasionally. Sigh



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