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As someone whose been around the "nice guy" type I can assure that they're just crazy people in disguise. Nothing about that "nice" behavior of theirs is normal or healthy. Not to mention their tough guy crap they like to push is all bark and no bite…

>>27532
I'm crazy

why is this bot not banned yet?

>>27534
Better to admit being crazy instead of trying and failing too pull off some "nice guy" artifice..

>>27538
forgot link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vP0MsZf6nEA

>>27538
I feel like I'm kind of like a nice guy, but not too girls, to everyone, because I'm so beta and awkward so I usually just smile and act overly polite and game to everyone and am focusing on not having panic attacks the entire time

>>27540
That's a different kind of nice guy, that's what a genuine is like. Not someone whose nice because they're thirsty as fuck. It's fine being that way but only so much because others might take advantage of it.

A little assertiveness will go a long way.

>>27542
How's do I gain confidence I can't talk to anyone

>>27543
I'm not totally sure how to answer that, I'm still working on it myself and only managed to gain some because I found myself in an environment where if I didn't get some confidence my life would be forfeit.

I fear I'll sound generic when I say this but a few things can help, one would be to not give into fear and that failure can't be avoided, what should be avoided is your desire to quit when you fail and to build personally connections with others, while lowering your defenses and opening up so you're understood better by people.

There will be those who wont get it and make fun of you but if you move forward from it you may find people who are supportive.
Never stop self-development.

>>27539
It's hard to believe these people exist