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 No.26584

How do I even live a proper life? When you're in your late 20s, don't know how to drive, have no job, no money, are unkempt, can't act normal.

How is a NEET like me even supposed to get a job, let alone make something out of myself?

I guess its just shitpost on /jp/ until my parents die and then kill myself.

 No.26585

You could do something like robbing a bank. If it goes good you get money and if it goes bad you could always live in prison.

 No.26586

>>26585
I'd rather not be double teamed by niggers and get AIDS and be beaten to death by gangs and prison guards for fun.

 No.26587

Have you tried applying for disability?

 No.26588

>don't know how to drive
go learn how to drive

>have no job, no money

get a job

>are unkempt

groom yourself

>can't act normal

not sure what you mean by this

 No.26590

Same here OP, wanna make an indie game together?

 No.26592

>>26588
Just like, do it brah. It's easy.

Thanks, Chad

 No.26593

>>26592
Well you won't do it if you don't do it. There's no other way to do it but by doing it. Idiot.

You don't do any of it then you wonder why it's not being done? That's because you aren't doing it. LITERALLY the ONLY way to do any of it is to do it. Idiot.

 No.26594

>>26593
I can't

 No.26595

>>26594
Why not?

 No.26596

>>26595
Anxiety and depression and ADHD-PI and a lifetime of abuse and rejection

 No.26597

>>26596
What if you just did it anyway?

 No.26598


 No.26599

>>26598
By doing it.

 No.26612

>>26599
I fail whenever I try

 No.26614

>>26612
Take me through your method. When you try, what is it you do?

 No.26615

>>26614
I act awkward and beta and Mumble and humiliate myself and don't just act normal

 No.26623

Working is torture.

 No.26628

>>26615
Yeah, you're gonna want to do the opposite of that.

 No.26684

I've been wondering about this myself, friend.

>>26588
You can learn how to drive but it's not gonna really solve anything. You will know how to drive, and what then?
You can get a job, but you're probably gonna hate it, especially if you have no education and was a NEET for over half a decade.
You will always be that "weird guy".

You cannot simply just go back to society… it's a bit more complicated than that. Few people here are intelligent and mentally stable enough to live a normal life.

 No.26692

>>26628
I can't

 No.26693

It's important to set out specific small achievable goals that will help you progress towards what you want.

 No.26701

>>26693
What's the point of trying when I'll always be lonely

 No.26703

>>26701
What's the point at NOT trying?

 No.26704

>>26703
I'm alone

 No.26783

>>26701
Ok then lets take this as an example. You want to not be lonely this could include multiple things from companionship, being part of a social community and even including acquaintances. So what would you like to focus on?

 No.26789

>>26783
Talking to people and being normal and real

 No.26814

>>26789
Ok lets be more specific what do you mean when you say normal and real?

 No.26817

>>26814
I can't hold a conversation without being awkward as fuck and just smiling and saying yeah uh ok and then there's awkward silence my mind goes blank

 No.26821

>>26817
So what you're looking to do is make sure that you have plenty of things to talk about. A solution to this would be to look at the things other people talk about and other aspects of small talk.

There are numerous things an individual can talk about. The general things are weather, local news and current events. You can talk about more personal things but it's important to keep it light and not talk about more private things. Topics you could talk about are what your plans are for the week end, what you like doing, fun experiences you've had.



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